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Social Securoty Benefits: Do people deserve to collect?

Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:23 PM EST
politics, economy, finance, u-s-news
By Arieus

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Should able body women be allowed to collect SS benefits of their deceased spouse?

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  • 174588
    Yes
    71%
  • 174589
    No
    17%
  • 174590
    They should get a job!
    3%
  • 174591
    They should retire like the rest of the working class.
    9%
  • 174592
    They should be allowed to live of the system at the taxpayers expense.
    0%

VoteTotal Votes: 116

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I was reading am article about a woman and her deceased husband.  She siad that after her husband died, she went to SS to collect widow's benefits.  I started thinking "WHY".  Why should she be collecting benefits off her deceased husband.  Didn't women fight for equality in the work place, the right to vote, and then they want to collect off their dead spouse as well.

When I looked up on the SS website about widow's benefits, why is this a one sided thing.  Men don't get to collect off their deceased wives.

I can see why someone that has a penrmanent disabilty collecting survivor benefits, but women can work.  They aren't disabled, so why are they allowed to collect in the first place.

Maybe ending the widows benefits might be a good thing, because women can get off their butts and get an education, a job ad earn an income.  IMO, they shouldn't be collecting any benefits off their dead spouse, and maybe, just maybe this could save SS for the future generations to come.

 

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Arieus

I think that if women have equal rights like all others, then they should be in the work place and not collecting a dime off their deceased spouse.

I see no harm in women working for a living and not living off others.

If men did this they would be shamed for it.

  • 3 votes
#1 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:25 PM EST
mrsrachelm

I would also point out that a widow is now a single parent. If her children are still young and not school age, she has to provide for the expense of day care etc while she pursues that education or gets that job. Window's benefits provide the ability to do that. Without that, many windowed mothers would not be able to afford the cost of things like daycare for their children while they worked towards becoming self-sufficient. I would rather provide for a widow so they could get their feet under them as giving them enough time via widow benefits is much cheaper int he long run than providing for them and their children over the long term because they are unable to afford the daycare or other necessities to better themselves and their situation. In the long run a woman given the helping hand to pursue higher education and a full time job will pay for itself once the woman becomes self sufficient.

  • 12 votes
#1.1 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:39 PM EST
Jonathan-1917156

so what exactly is a woman to do who is 60 years old and has never worked a day in the workforce in her life (raising family etc...) supposed to do about getting a job. The likely hood of getting a job at that point in her life is about nil to non existent.

Sorry, part of the contribution rates take the fact that part of the benefits are for widows.

  • 22 votes
#1.2 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 11:12 PM EST
Chris-735081

My mother lost her husband to the Vietnam War. She had three kids and she was dependent on him as a provider.

He volunteered to go. He stood up when people like Mitt Romney were hiding in France. He had three tours. He was shot through the leg on the first tour. On the third tour, he was gut shot, blown up by a grenade and stabbed through the lungs with a bayonet. He contracted malaria in the hospital. He came home and a few days later went into cardiac arrest and died in the living room.

Tell me again why she and all the other wives of dead soldiers don't deserve widow's benefits.

  • 17 votes
#1.3 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 11:45 PM EST
Silvaria

Well, as much as I can see the point of able-bodied women getting jobs and not needing their deceased spouse's benefits, those men paid into the system. If she doesn't get it, the government does.

That just doesn't seem right on any level, to me.

  • 10 votes
#1.4 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:30 AM EST
xrayspex

While I have and will continue to rail against generations of folks living "on the dole", I think this is a separate matter and should be considered on a case by case basis. If the need is there (as in the case of a widowed mother with young children) I have no problem with her collecting SS benefits earned by the deceased spouse. I also believe it should apply in the reverse situation (for a widower with kids) and that there should be some reasonable restrictions and limitations on the collection of those benefits (as in reducing and or eliminating them as those children become adults) but there's no way I'll go with a blanket denial of benefits earned through hard work exactly when they're needed.

  • 3 votes
#1.5 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:53 AM EST
I'm Ringo

From what the SSA says, it is the same for men and women. Women can get the benefits as a widow just like men can get benefits as a widower.

  • 8 votes
#1.6 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 1:58 AM EST
MeanGene-3334839

From what the SSA says, it is the same for men and women. Women can get the benefits as a widow just like men can get benefits as a widower.

That only applies IF the benefits are greater than what an applicant would get based upon their own contribution history. For example, if Jack and Jill both worked for a water company on a hill fetching pails of water, and both had equal pay for equal work, then if Jack falls down and breaks his crown, Jack's widow benefits would not be any more than Jill's own and she would merely collect her own. There wouldn't be any widow benefit.

Another caveat is if Jack took Social Security benefits early at age 62, then Jill's widow benefits would be reduced accordingly because Jack's benefits were reduced. If she collects, then she may be throwing money away because her own benefits will not kick in at age 68. She would be nailed with the same penalty that befell Jack for taking benefits too early.

It's a nasty trap played upon people by a heartless bureaucracy all the time.

Jack and Jill are age 62. Jack decides to collect benefits early. Unfortunately, Jack falls down...

Jill, having lost Jack's income decides to apply for widow benefits, and gets them. She believes (wrongly) that she can collect Jack's benefits and then when she's 68 years old, she can do a switcheroo and collect her own higher benefits.

Not so fast. Social Security looks at Jill as having started collecting benefits at age 62 and she's LOCKED IN PLACE. She can't claim full retirement. Ever. And Jill goes tumbling after.

  • 5 votes
#1.7 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 4:28 AM EST
I'm Ringo

My point was that the rules do not differ based on sex as had been claimed.

  • 6 votes
#1.8 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 5:00 AM EST
Darryl Blackshear

This is a pointless post! No matter how you feel about it, He was her husband, He is dead, She is entitled to the money! Her husband put it in now it is hers! It is funny that we can complain when those of us in the middle, get even a little more than we would normally have, But the rich are allowed to obtain vast amounts of wealth, some of it through some shady means but this is OK? Do me a favor stfu!!!!!

  • 3 votes
#1.9 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 7:21 AM EST
Walt42

Arieus...i find your article somewhat prejudicial, and lacking of empathy.

You ignore that a married couple BOTH contribute to SS (it's been US law since 1930s). They are a TEAM; the survivor should, obviously, be entitled to the highest benefit, since they BOTH contributed to SS.

  • 8 votes
#1.10 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 9:25 AM EST
Thinknaboutit

I would be more in favor of eliminating the SS benefits of those whose other sources of retirement income are greater than their SS benefits. Many of these widows/widowers rely on these benefits as their primary source of income.

  • 1 vote
#1.11 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 10:14 AM EST
mrsrachelm

Nope. They paid in, they deserve to collect...regardless. They weren't given the choice to pay in or not so they deserve to get what they were forced to contribute to.

  • 4 votes
#1.12 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 10:17 AM EST
Thinknaboutit

Notice the wording I would be more in favor, as in if there were no other option. Are you arguing that those who truly need the benefits should be given less priority because they didn't personally pay into the fund? I've personally paid quite a bit into SS and would have no problems with giving my share to a widow/widower who had no other income source.

    #1.13 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 10:35 AM EST
    Darryl Blackshear

    Thinknaboutit

    This is too much like a truly compassionate American and human being. For some here this type of thinking is alien. Why take care of people in need when it is so much easier to chastise them!!!!

    • 2 votes
    #1.14 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:26 PM EST
    Coral Atlas

    I will go as far as to say that single women who collect social security should be adjusted to compensate for the disparity in womens pay versus men!

    What I'm reading here in some cases is vile. Why are some humans just plain spiteful and mean?

    One more reason why humans are #1 on the "real" endangered species list.

    I'm often embarrassed to be human by what I see, read and hear. This is one of those times.

    • 6 votes
    #1.15 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:22 PM EST
    Thinknaboutit

    Aye Coral, I've often said humans are the most destructive force on the planet.

    • 3 votes
    #1.16 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 4:23 PM EST
    Phil-1006700

    To me it sounds like someone passing judgement on the elderly. Because they get something and other people don't it should be stopped. I could almost bet that Arieus also supports the WSO in wanting their college loans paid off for them.

    • 2 votes
    #1.17 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 6:43 PM EST
    Davy-755715

    The SS system is needed by around a third of those who get the benefits, but it has basically turned us all into a nation of self-justified welfare collectors. The benefit should be based on need instead of greed for any recipients, including widows, widowers, everyone who is eligible. The nation simply can't afford the giveaway any more.

    • 2 votes
    #1.18 - Tue Jan 31, 2012 6:19 AM EST
    PonGoad

    Paying into the system your entire life and you consider it greedy to expect to get something back?

    • 4 votes
    #1.19 - Tue Jan 31, 2012 6:43 AM EST
    Davy-755715

    The money we paid in either went to the recipients-du-jour, or paid for the programs we collectively wanted. It would be swell if a blank check could be given to everyone who for whatever reason qualifies, but the nation can't afford to do so, and will collapse if it's not rolled back. That's simply the way it is...

      #1.20 - Tue Jan 31, 2012 2:05 PM EST
      Reply
      Mike-1499840

      You are attacking the wrong problem. Government involvement in retirement is the problem. The second government is involved, then "exceptions" become the norm. The makers end up supporting the takers. If her husband had put all of his social security contributions into a 401k instead of feeding a government bureauacracy, she would have inherited his account after he passed away, to no detriment of the taxpayers.

      Regards,

      Mike

      • 4 votes
      Reply#2 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:41 PM EST
      Uthaclena

      Mike-1499840

      If her husband had put all of his social security contributions into a 401k instead of feeding a government bureaucracy, she would have inherited his account after he passed away, to no detriment of the taxpayers.

      Suppose her husband was an excellent plumber with a decent and steady income but had no investment sense at all and totally screwed up "their" retirement; or he got ENRONed; do we wax Libertarian, shrug and say, "Well, life ain't fair," and just hope that his wife gets by SOMEhow... but it's really not MY problems, and certainly not if it's going to involve "redistributing MY wealth."

      That IS an option, you know... but I wouldn't support it, and hope you wouldn't either.

      • 9 votes
      #2.1 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:15 PM EST
      Mike-1499840

      I would support it. The Federal government has NO Constitutional business in retirement...and as a practical matter, based on past performance, has no ability either.

      And your sarcastic statement is actually fact...no one has the right to forcibly take from me to give to another. You cannot make any Constitutional or moral case for forced redistribution...absolutely none.

      Regards,

      Mike

      • 1 vote
      #2.2 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:40 PM EST
      Mike-1499840

      Hey Utha!

      I didn't see your name at first. How goes it?

      Mike

        #2.3 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:53 PM EST
        Uthaclena

        Hey Mike! It goes well.! Yourself?

        Sorry you thought I was being sarcastic, I was actually trying to present what seems to me the basic perspective of conservatism regarding wealth distribution, which you seem to confirm, yes? Since I lean democratic socialist I myself do believe in (and this is tricky) a "reasonable (involuntary) redistribution" for the commonwealth. In concert with that my personal moral position is based on "the greatest good for the greatest number," again, recognizing the trickiness of this, because the sky obviously can't - and shouldn't be - the limit.

        Voluntary tithing would be a more humane position, but my read of history is that it is entirely inadequate to do much more than keeping people living the most marginal of lives. That is probably a good thing in many Third World nations, but I see that as unworthy of a modern civilization.

        Thus, the debate continues!

          #2.4 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 1:00 AM EST
          Mike-1499840

          Hey Utha,

          I owe you the apology....sometimes I get in the Fire, Ready, Aim mode if you know what I mean.

          Regards,

          Mike

          • 1 vote
          #2.5 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 7:57 AM EST
          Coral Atlas

          Mike. If you own stocks or bonds or Gold they are intrinsically worthless. Therefore put all of your wealth into a 401k like you recommend and then try eating them when the inevitable world wide depression takes place. ;-)

          Or perhaps if someone needs to make a fire you could barter your stocks and bonds to be used for kindling in exchange for some fruits & vegetables. ;-)

          • 5 votes
          #2.6 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:28 PM EST
          Reply
          skeptic-227981

          Well, if we're talking equal rights, we are talking equal pay.

          Many women have worked their whole lives - in the home. So their husband dies and they are near retirement age. What are they supposed to do? No one who works in the home is eligible for SS under their own name. The rules say they have to collect based on their husbands' earnings.

          Here's a link to what the work they do is valued at:

          http://swz.salary.com/momsalarywizard/htmls/mswl_momcenter.html

          • 13 votes
          Reply#3 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 9:56 PM EST
          ryoushi12

          According to ronpaulites, die.

          • 7 votes
          #3.1 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:54 PM EST
          Coral Atlas

          Women's social security should be adjusted upwards to compensate for the disparity in pay between men and women!

          • 3 votes
          #3.2 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:30 PM EST
          Reply
          Arieus

          The rules say they have to collect based on their husbands' earnings.

          Interesting, and thanks for the link Skeptic.

          On another note. A friend of mine that was permanently disabled as a little boy, when he lived in California, he was collecting almost 1k a mth. When he moved back to his home town in KY, they dropped the amount to about 760 a mth.

          I don't quite understand that at all. Why should he lose so much and not only that, he lost hos VA benefits through hos dad as well that was around 160 a mth. They sent him a letter telling him he was receiving too much on SS benefits on the survivor benefit part.

          For me, what ever he was collecting in CA he should be collecting the same in KY (Kentucky).

          I feel all people across the Us should be collecting at least 1400 to 1800 per mth to live on, but should not be allowed to work if they are collecting. This way it frees up the job market for the younger people and generations to come so they can pay into the SS system and keep it going.

          When I learned that MJ's kids were collecting benefits through SS sine their dad is dead, and then then they have all these millions in bank accounts collecting interests, that alone for me tells me the whole system needs to be revised to help those that need it, and not be entitled to it all because they think they are.

          I don't understand the system all that well, but hopefully I will learn a lot more about it here on the vine and on the net.

          • 1 vote
          Reply#4 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:10 PM EST
          mstanley2265

          SSI, became a program in 1974. The states had programs, Aid to the Blind, Aid to the Disabled, etc etc. So, SSI was established but the States still pay part of the benefits and they also set the amounts. That's the why the difference between Calif and KY. Now if the states would give up their part in SSI then they would expect the Feds to pay the difference. Not going to happen

          Getting SS disability or SSI, certain medical criteria has to be met. If you don't then you don't get it, if you do meet the criteria then you do. It is not an easy, sign up and someone gets either one. Sometimes it is years before someone gets a benefit.

          The whole system needs to be revised? and replaced with what? The system is tweaked now and then to make it better just as if someone would replace a battery in their car. They wouldn't buy a new car just because they needed a battery. geez

          • 5 votes
          #4.1 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:20 PM EST
          Pat from Montana

          Arieus the difference in amount is because of the difference in the cost of living between Cal and KY

          • 1 vote
          #4.2 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:00 AM EST
          mstanley2265

          true Pat, plus here in the KY, they don't tax food, and they are a bit cheapskate too. :)

          • 2 votes
          #4.3 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:04 AM EST
          PonGoad

          Arieus

          I feel all people across the Us should be collecting at least 1400 to 1800 per mth to live on, but should not be allowed to work if they are collecting.

          Have you ever attempted to live on $1400 - $1800 a month? As Pat from Montana and mstanley2265 says - not all states are created equal and the same goes for the cost of living in each state. It may sound like a lot to some, but sometimes, it is not that simple. If you don't have to pay mortgage or rent, it might be possible, but if you do, and add all of the additional expenses you incur ( insurances, home ownership and all of the expenses that come with it, health insurance, food, clothing, travel expenses, etc.), you have no choice but to have another source of income in addition to collecting that $1400-$1800.

          • 3 votes
          #4.4 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:11 PM EST
          Coral Atlas

          The states and local Governments are the problem. They are corrupt and inefficient and escape the due diligence that OUR Federal Government is constantly under.

          Get a new pair of glasses Americans .... and take a closer look at what's going on in your local Government and your state Government. Pure unadulterated corruption that makes the Federal Government look heavenly by comparison!

          This nation has collective tunnelvision and is farsighted when it comes to taxes!

          • 4 votes
          #4.5 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 2:35 PM EST
          Davy-755715

          When I put my glasses on, Coral, I see a nation full of people who want just about every government program conceivable, and then whine like spoiled kids if told we can't afford it, or they should pay for it all. Blaming that government, or illegal aliens or fill-in-the-blank, may comfort people, but it's only a diversion from the one in the mirror. Few if any care about the future for the kids; the biggest cares are I, me, mine, and next weekend. It's called "denial".

          • 1 vote
          #4.6 - Tue Jan 31, 2012 2:42 PM EST
          Reply
          mstanley2265

          So, you are saying that the money that her husband, now deceased, paid into SS for all those years......goes to a stranger? Someone who didn't earn the money that was paid into SS in his name? hmmmm, that's an interesting concept being as how it was the woman who cooked, cleaned, shopped, had his children, raised them when he was at work, etc. Think of all the things that Your mother did in the home.

          There is the other small detail that you overlooked. If the man hadn't Died than the widow would be getting even more money than what she gets from SS. How do I know?... my husband died. With my benefits (from working) and the widow benefits,.... $800 a month was kept by Social Security. $800 a month more that we would have gotten if he were still alive. That's $9,600 less a year that SS keeps for every year that I live without him. :)

          If Congress wanted men to get benefits from their wives SS then they would have made that a regulation too.

          • 9 votes
          Reply#5 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:12 PM EST
          Arieus

          So, you are saying that the money that her husband, now deceased, paid into SS for all those years......goes to a stranger?

          No! I'm saying it should go to those that are in need of the assistance. If a woman is still working or can work, then she should not be collecting any benefits at all until retirement age like the rest of the people, both male and female.

          • 1 vote
          #5.1 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:17 PM EST
          mstanley2265

          Arieus, Well that's the same as saying the money he paid in would go to a stranger...

          No Widow can collect a widow's benefits Until age 62..I don't know where you got the idea they can. It is written plainly on the Social Security Website.

          And if she happens to be working at age 62 and does collect benefits then she can make as much as $10,000 a year before she has reduction of benefits. If she chooses to start drawing SS Early, most don't, they wait until they are 65.

          If you'd been following the unemployment stats, know this employers generally get rid of the older workers as soon as they can and it is Very difficult for an older person to find a job in today's employment market.

          • 9 votes
          #5.2 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:25 PM EST
          mrsrachelm

          I'd like to see how well people think the elderly are going to live on 10K a year and a few benefits. For those who gripe about Social Security benefits of the various kinds, just remember....you too will one day have younger people bitching and moaning about giving you money via Social Security and other benefits (that you paid into, by the way) they would rather have for themselves while you are struggling to pay for heat, food, insurances, medical needs, etc on Social Security and whatever (if any) part time job you can get (if you are still able to work).

          • 8 votes
          #5.3 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:47 PM EST
          ryoushi12

          But they are all going to be rich and healthy and live to a hundred and just drop dead playing golf.

          • 2 votes
          #5.4 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:56 PM EST
          mrsrachelm

          You don't know much about the average quality of life based on financial issues for most of the elderly in the USA, do you?

          • 4 votes
          #5.5 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 11:02 PM EST
          mstanley2265

          uhhh, that was sarcasm ryoushi wasn't it....

          The main problem with SS is that For the acturial table the SS jumped up the 'possible' average age at death by 5 years.... Usually though according to the CDC Actual Death stats, people are not living to the old average age much less the new average age. But that's how they do stats when they have a trust fund deal going on.

          • 2 votes
          #5.6 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 11:12 PM EST
          Pat from Montana

          Another fact is this.

          The average every day blue collar working stiff does not anywhere live near as long as the suit in a cush chair and a desk.

          Most in my family (both sides) were physically beat up, the ladies hands were destroyed doing repititous factory jobs and thier lungs shot from openly breathing all the chemicals and the men had various things, my father died before his 50th birthday and left my stepmother with three kids under 14, knees from the roofer and concrete worker, lungs from the boiler man, my grandfather lost a leg to gangrene working on a dam in 20 degree weather (it took his life at 55) .. my other grandfather broke his back digging ditches....the list goes on.

          All of them worked as long as they possibly could. And it was the wives that took care of the kids and house and the broken down man with their own broken down hands that they got from working at home (many factories did home work at that time, it was a housewives ideal job when you had 5 kids) to try to take the pressure off the husbands... Many of them died just before they could retire.

          But not a one of them bitched about doing what needed to be done.

          So ya some widow/widower benefits are deserved.

          My family has made a lot of people a HUGE amount of profit. And they get ss and widow/widower benefits. That is the least they deserve.

          Sorry, end of rant.

          • 5 votes
          #5.7 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 1:40 AM EST
          Reply
          Jonathan-1917156

          she deserves to receive it because that is part of the law as it currently stands. No ifs ands or buts. It comes from a time when the woman was traditionally a non working (yes I know, stay at home moms are definitely working their asses off but I use the term non working as 'non employment income working') stay at home spouse, and if the contributing spouse passed away, the non contributing spouse would be destitute. Considering that SS was intended to keep people from being destitute after they retired, which was a big problem, spousal benefits is not a big problem in my mind.

          • 7 votes
          Reply#6 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:18 PM EST
          ERich-356044

          Well said Jonathan.

          • 5 votes
          #6.1 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 8:46 AM EST
          Reply
          Dog_Blue

          Deserves got nothing to do with it! I don't care if they have SSI or not just refund all my deductions and I'm happy!!

          • 2 votes
          Reply#7 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:20 PM EST
          dbmcc

          There is a provision for widows because as stated above women have the primary responsibility for taking care of the children, cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc. and even if they work its usually at a part-time or low wage job.

          On the other hand a if a couple were married more than 10 years, and divorced, when it comes to retirement either ex-spouse made claim benefits under the other's Social Security benefits if the benefits are greater. If the woman had greater income and paid more into Social Security then her ex-spouse may be able to boose his benefits by claiming under her.

          • 3 votes
          Reply#8 - Sun Jan 29, 2012 10:26 PM EST
          VerbalBarb

          When I looked up on the SS website about widow's benefits, why is this a one sided thing. Men don't get to collect off their deceased wives.

          You should have looked more carefully: http://www.socialsecurity.gov/pubs/10084.html

        • A widow or widower, at full retirement age or older, generally receives 100 percent of the worker’s basic benefit amount;

        • A widow or widower, age 60 or older, but under full retirement age, receives about 71-99 percent of the worker’s basic benefit amount; or

          • 4 votes
          Reply#9 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:05 AM EST
          tt16

          When Social Security was created, most wives stayed home and worked as homemakers. The husband's Mandated SS Insurance was for both. Social Security costs Taxpayers nothing.

          • 3 votes
          Reply#10 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 5:33 AM EST
          Carol-500283

          This is true and I know ladies today who are widows who are working( albeit part-time, we're talking 70+years here) just to make ends meet. They own their homes, don't travel at all, and live very close to the vest, and still can't make it just on SS. They didn't have the money to plan any other way. So YES, these dear ladies, and men if it applies, should be able to get which ever is higher in pay.

          • 3 votes
          #10.1 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:38 PM EST
          Reply
          Borncorn

          When I looked up on the SS website about widow's benefits, why is this a one sided thing. Men don't get to collect off their deceased wives.

          Pure bunk. SS does not care whether a person is a man or woman when setting benefits.

          • 5 votes
          Reply#11 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 8:54 AM EST
          Shub Tnediserp Remrof

          Sexist Social Security System (SSSS) Men should be able to collect off of our deceased widows this is not right. I demand equality!

          • 1 vote
          Reply#12 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 9:14 AM EST
          merleliz

          I started thinking "WHY". Why should she be collecting benefits off her deceased husband.

          You might want to consider the fact that her husband's salary, as well as her own, if she worked outside the home, had SS taxes deducted from it during his entire lifetime. Since "their" salary or salaries had the taxes deducted from it, then "they" should be entitled to collect the benefits they paid for.

          • 3 votes
          Reply#13 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 9:51 AM EST
          mrsrachelm

          I often get the sense sometimes that some people, usually the younger set (20's and 30's...maybe even very early 40's) want all that money that their elders paid into the system to go to -them- for the things -they- will benefit from and are basically saying ...excuse me...."@!$%# the elders".

          It's like the younger crowd knows that all the baby boomers out there are now collecting on all that and, since our beloved government couldn't keep their damned hands out of the till, that money is not all there and will have to come from someplace. They don't want to be effected by it. The fact that they reap the benefits of the government's hand in the till on some things isn't a problem for them. BUT OMGawd! If they actually have to "share" in order for the elderly who have paid into the system all their lives to receive what is OWED them....they totally freak out and cry foul. Strikes me as damned selfish, really.

          Disclaimer: This is NOT addressed to any particular viner but to the overall atmosphere of these issues when they appear from time to time on the vine concerning Social Security and other benefits that people have paid into all their working lives.

          • 5 votes
          Reply#14 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 10:03 AM EST
          skeptic-227981

          Mrsrachelm, your observation is correct in many instances. I've seen posts which include the very criticisms you addressed. I blame the current political discourse for the majority of this, because that discourse has succeeded in pandering to the 'me' part of all of us and has created and perpetuated that division.

          After what we all saw happen to retirement and investment accounts in 2008, it is imperative that SS continue. Unless Congress grows a backbone and implements the regulations needed to prevent that situation from ever happening again, SS will continue to be the lifeline for those who make it to retirement age.

          We all need to ensure that Social Security exists when our kids are eligible in the future. We can do that by electing lawmakers who 'get it'. We can insist that the income cap be removed from SS/payroll tax. Doing those two things will ensure that SS exists down the line.

          • 1 vote
          #14.1 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 1:14 PM EST
          Pat from Montana

          Mrsrachelm~ Applauds comment #14

          • 1 vote
          #14.2 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 5:42 PM EST
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          keepfreepress

          In spite of many incorrectly spelled words I feel compelled to respond to the headline.

          Social Security only allows a spouse to collect one, I repeat, one, benefit; if the wife was the primary wage earner she obviously would only collect from her own Social Security account.

          If the wife was the secondary wage earner and the spouse was the primary wage earner, then the wife could collect only her husbands amount after his death as his survivor, she could not collect both.

          If a wife never worked and stayed home to raise children, support her husband and work in the home, then she is still entitled to her husbands Social Security amount as the survivor after his death.

          If she worked raising children and worked only in the home, who is going to take on a 60+ year old woman with no outside job skills?

          The same is in reverse for husbands.

          If a husband worked as the secondary wage earner and his wife earned more money as the primary wage earner, then upon her death he also could only collect one Social Security benefit, the amount from his wife's earnings upon her death.

          • 3 votes
          Reply#15 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:11 AM EST
          reddirthippy

          link to POMS for Requirements for Disabled Widow(er)'s Benefits (DWB)

          Disabled Widow(er)'s Benefits (DWB) General

          Ifr you are talking about benefits not related to disability

          RS 00207.001 Widow(er)'s Benefits Definitions and Requirements

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            Reply#16 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 11:47 AM EST
            Carol-500283

            I stayed home and took care of EVERYTHING while my husband worked on road construction. It wasn't easy raising two kids alone part of the time(try at least 6 mos. per year). So, YES, we wives do a job too, we just don't get compensation in the form of a check. Besides many of us STILL aren't paid at the same rate. Wives and mothers do a very important job, don't begrudge us enough to exist when we are old, some don't ever collect so there you have it. Maybe the deal should be based on need, like Mrs. Millionaire may not need so very much of the government money. Grandma on the other hand might just need a little more!

            • 8 votes
            Reply#17 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 12:32 PM EST
            Denis-1291810

            Let's get rid of SS altoghether. P.S. I'll save the money I made(make) for myself and I won't take in a single relative. Beggars form a line at Church. Snark.

            • 1 vote
            Reply#18 - Mon Jan 30, 2012 7:27 PM EST
            Leon Elledge

            Lets talk equal ! I say everyone that has worked is entitled to collect their full benefit on retirement. (NOT ONE PLUS 2/3 of another) If either party dies the survivor should get the deceased partners full check plus their full check. If the partner has not worked long enough to get a check, back to work they go. Until the survivor pays in the missing quarters. he or she gets no check. In the event of the death of one, the required missing quarters should come out of any insurance.

            WE SEEM TO THINK THAT TWO CAN LIVE ON 2/3 OF WHAT THEY WOULD RECEIVE IF SINGLE AND THAT THE SURVIVOR, even if he or she worked, IS NOT ENTITLED TO A FULL BENEFIT UNLESS THAT SURVIVING PARTNER IS FEMALE. This system has led to people who were married 40 years gettuing a divorce and the government spending time trying to prove they live together.

            How stupid if that?

            • 1 vote
            Reply#19 - Tue Jan 31, 2012 1:40 PM EST
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